Characteristics & Qualities of a Real Relationship with Christ

By:

Claire Falgout

He made us first for relationship with Himself, through His Son.

Who is this Christ I speak of? Jesus Christ is Incomparable to anyone in my life, even my favorite peeps – my family. They, like all relationships, lead to disappointment and even frustration at one time or another. God never made another human being to be the “be-all, end all” for you and I. He made us first for relationship with Himself, through His Son.

The qualities and characteristics I have learned about Christ are….

Incomprehensible

He knows me better than I know myself & all His qualities combined. The more I study Him, the more I realize there is always something to learn about Him.

Closest friend

He has comforted me when no one else could or knew how.

My Righteousness

Without Christ’s righteousness imputed to me, I am nothing.

Comforter

16 moves in 24 years called for an immeasurable amount of comfort as a navy spouse.

Husband

When Navy hubby was deployed, He is who I sought for wisdom and counsel.

Protector

In the physical state, from words which shouldn’t be shared, situations which shouldn’t have happened, doors that were closed

Joy

When the world & the devil wants to steal and take it.

Hope

Without Him I’d be void of hope – for eternity, tomorrow, & the state of my soul.

Lifter of my head

He has numbered my days and graced me to even write this blog.

Strength

When I am weak – 17 years of homeschooling will show one just how weak they are.

Savior

Who else do I have but Him?

Sanctification

He has promised to complete the good work He has begun to do in me.

High Priest

He lives to intercede for me & I can go straight to His throne of grace to find comfort and help in my time of need, the veil has been torn making a way to enter His presence.

Patience

In dealing with this stubborn soul – enough said!

Peace

Through the shed blood of Christ, I have been reconciled to God. I am His child.

My Help

In large tasks & the most minute of tasks,  deployments & being asked to do the unthinkable, whenever I ask for Help, He gives it – as a wife, as a mom, as a friend, whether ministering to others or helping me to keep my mouth shut.

Compassionate

When I do the things I don’t want to do, whatever concerns me concerns Him

Wisdom

This was the cry of my heart that first year I was saved:  Lord give me wisdom above all else.

Defender

When people have accused me and say ill of me, when the enemy accuses me in the presence of My Lord – “look at her, she screwed up again”- CHRIST defends me! Rom 8:1

Provider

For all things huge, small, and even the intangible, mysteriously unspoken – often without me even asking…

Atoning Sacrifice

The anthem to my faith

The calm in every storm

Only He can do this

Prepared a place for me in heaven

16 moves has this soul longing to go to my heavenly home. No more moving, no more goodbyes, no more time restraints, & in His loving presence forever.

Judge

He alone will right every wrong done in my life – even the wrongs I’ve done to others.

Grace giver

Through every role I’ve been asked to do, He has been faithful. 

Mercy unending

Daily, throughout the day.

Inexhaustible

He never says, “Claire, you’re too much. You come to me too much.” He takes me in all my neediness.

Teacher

My best teachers came through sports which were a major part of my upbringing, so I see this role of teacher/coach in the heart of Christ.. He is FOR me, always desiring to stretch me beyond what is comfortable – those are the best coaches – they see the end result of their athlete, despite knowing the pain it will take to get there! “Keep going, one more time, get back up.” Those coach yelling sessions have been replaced with a gentle whisper – to persevere, get back up, try again, I’m with you.

Salvation

Not only for eternity, but the day to day needing to be saved and help in situations.

Love

The God of the Universe loves me, because He first loved me.

Sovereign

In all of my wrestling adventures, this doctrine has given me freedom & peace & security which surpasses nearly all qualities.

My goal is Christ. 

My heart longs for you to say the same.

Hoping you’ll stay with me on this journey of knowledge of the Son of God and Son of Man as we humbly walk with Him, surpassing what current knowledge we have of Him, ever learning, ever growing and sometimes doing a little wrestling. 

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